Ask yourself What would I love?
What makes you tick?
What makes you itch?
What makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning?
What inspires you to take action?
What do you do without even being asked to do it?
Answering the question What would I love is the way to create a life that is fulfilling, your unique WonderFULL Life.
And yet we are not brought up asking ourselves these questions. The majority of us tend to be raised as doers, people-pleasers, crowd-followers, good-girls, people that don’t question the authority. We get promises of good wages, a good career, good prospects and so we follow down blindly down that path. Half-way down, we might have success… ON PAPER. But because we never asked ourselves What would I love, we feel unfulfilled, like something is missing.
If this is you, recognise that you are out of the habit of asking yourself:
What do I want? Or even better. What would I love? on a regular basis.
Because think about it, if you’re not used to asking yourself this question then the answer doesn’t matter so much. However, when you start to wake up to the un-fulfilled feeling? You start to focus on everything that you don’t like in your life right now. And the best way to unlock that situation is to start to ask yourself:
“What would I love?”
Find out what is it that you love to do – and if you don’t quite know the answers yet, make this a mission for yourself. A mission to find out what are your deep heart desires and to give yourself the permission to get them. Know that you deserve them and that wanting something different is OK.
Think about this for a moment… if you carry on the way you are, will you be fulfilled in 1 year…5 years…how about a lifetime? Will you look back and think “YES! I’m completely fulfilled”.
Because if the answer is no or not-sure or if it scares the hell of out you… It’s time to ask asking yourself What would I love and going for it… or you will hate yourself later and maybe even have regrets.
If the task of achieving your vision of what you would love feels out of reach or too optimistic, remember all the amazing things that you have achieved already – things that once did seem impossible. Connect to your innate power, the power inside of you that creates worlds. That power can create anything you wish. On top of that, it takes self-belief and willingness to be uncomfortable. Because what you would love is inside of you already – it wouldn’t be there unless it was possible, it’s more about growing into that part of you. So belief you can make it a reality and be willing to go through the uncomfortable growth zone to get there. Nothing grows in the comfort zone – as that is our current reality.
To achieve any vision, it really is a series of little steps – not many become an overnight success, the real stories of success show that it arrives as a tide does, little by little, and then suddenly you realise the tide is fully in and you have everything you desired. So by realising it’s a path, you can begin by taking one step at a time.
You don’t have to jump off a cliff, you can begin to build your vision of what you would love alongside with what you are currently doing. I am a regular cliff-jumper, and some of those jumps have been painful, some have been delightful but it’s not for everyone so I don’t recommend it. Rather I prefer to advise you to really connect to what you would love and build a plan to get there, then when it’s ready and steady – JUMP! Jump whole-heartedly into a life full of what you would love, because if you don’t ask yourself how would you feel?
If you feel ready to take the first steps – join my free Create your WonderFULL Life Training. I will take you through the first three steps to creating your vision, making it a reality and the baby steps to get there. Join here: https://kellymorgan.tv/create-your-wonderfull-life/
Love Kelly
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