Why its NOT a new year new you

I don’t know about you but I am sick of all these new year new you messages 👎

It just doesn’t feel consistent with everything we’ve experienced in 2020, what’s going on right now in the world with lockdowns and the energy feels quiet and a time to pause 🤷‍♀️.

I have scrolled in the feeds and saw some “year in review” posts and plans for 2021 and I did spent a second or two thinking “oh I should do that”

And there it is – the SHOULD – meaning I don’t want to do it, I don’t feel inspired to do it but I’m going to force myself to do it anyway.

So I didn’t. I stayed quiet. 

The thing is for me there is no thing such as a new year, new you.

We are constantly evolving, things are awakening inside of us in a moment by moment basis 🌹.

To come to these realisations it’s wise to go quiet, go within and be.

Be at one with your own divinity, desire and discernment. 

This takes being in your feminine energy, the part of you that is connected to all that is, your intuition and deep heart wishes.

Most need to work on being in feminine energy because the whole world is geared to favour masculine energy: the energy of thinking, doing and pushing. 

This has created an imbalance. An imbalance that favours goals, plans, achievements that are often disconnected from your deeper self. The one who holds the keys to your desires and deep wisdom. So a lot of the new you, new you goals are not actually what you really want. They are what you think you want.

This leads to so much disappointment. I have very successful clients who strived and achieved big goals: wealth, status, power. Perhaps things you dream of xxx. And most of them get to that goal and say “wow is this it? No big deal” and they aren’t fully satisfied. Why? Because those goals were not linked to who they truly are, their deepest potential and desires.

Activating your feminine energy is the key 🔑 to finding your next step, your next becoming.

If you want to find out more, drop me a line 😊

Love Kelly


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