Staying in an unhappy relationship

Staying in an unhappy relationship, or in fact staying in anything (like a job, house, commitment, friendship) where you don’t feel:

🙏🏻 Appreciated

💎 Valued

😍 Seen

❤️ Loved

Kills ⚡️ your self-esteem and robs you of joy.

Do you remember the last time you really laughed and leaned your head back, relaxed in your relationship? Or are you treading on eggshells, shifting into corners and putting on a brave face so that ‘bombs’ don’t go off?

I mean, I get why you would stay in difficult situation, because I have stayed too long in things that weren’t serving me before. In a hope that “things would get better” or writing it off “as it’s a stressful period right now”. Or there’s been times when I was clinging on to dear life for a relationship, because I thought my life would fall apart without it. Guess what? It didn’t.

Pretending that everything is ok or just ignoring a situation that doesn’t make you feel good doesn’t miraculously heal on it’s own. In fact, it leads to a slow decay of your self-worth. Because all along, your deeper consciousness is watching you accepting things that make you feel unloved, under-valued, and unappreciated. 

And the inner dialogue goes something like: 

  • It must be because I am not good enough
  • I am not as important as all these other things and people
  • there’s something wrong with me
  • I am not doing it right (taking all the responsibility, guilt and blame)

Now, my advice is not to leave straight out 🚪 from an unhappy relationship. I would never say that to a client, because that robs her of her own inner guidance and knowing.

But, my advice is to look honestly at a situation, to allow yourself to feel all the feels, to find out again what is it that YOU want, and then to begin the journey towards that. Because what you desire is the key to opening up your life-force and birthing new miracles.

I have found multiple times, that the more we work on ourselves, the more the miracle changes come about in our relationships, our opportunities and our abundance 🦋✨🌸

So this is my invitation to you, to open up to reviewing what’s making you unhappy and to seeing what needs to be done to rebuild your self-worth.

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Love Kelly


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